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Chinatown B4 CNY
There were a MILLION people bustling around Chinatown on Friday night in anticipation for Chinese New Year in 3 weeks time. You can almost smell the Bee Cheng Hiang in the air. LOL. Among all the single eyelid-ers and of course some fake ones, there was this handsome chap, honey-toned with almond eyes who tried to blend in with the crowd but sorely stood out like a sore thumb. Bagus, dalam baik, aku tetap puji diri sendiri.
That Friday night, Hasni called me and ask if I was free and want to meet him and Shai for dinner around Chinatown. I bet he missed me since the last time we met was perhaps at Boon Lay Nasi Lemak which was in Oct 2009(?) since I am always a joy to be around. I left work at 7pm and took a bus straight to Chinatown which h massive jam all the way from Outram to Clarke Quay, thank god for bus lane!!
Both of them had just confirmed their trip to ******, censored out of courtesy and atas permintaan tuan punya diri. My blog is public and someone will always that he’s going to the same place too. Sifat tak nak kalah, memang! So, make a guess lor, it could be a country, a city or a place…six letters. If you guess correctly, they might just bring you along as excess baggage.


I Hate It, I Hate You
I hate it when I smile too much and it doesn’t look good in photos.
I hate it when you think you know me and you’ve already assume too much.
I hate it when you know that I’m upset and you don’t attempt to coax/comfort or say sorry; even if you don’t mean it.
I hate it when you correct me all the time.
I hate it when I follow my emotions and let my legs take me away from confrontations with you.
I hate it when it rains just as I step out of home.
I hate it when my eyes get red and dry and I left my eyedrops in another bag.
I hate it when I gave you space and you posted photos of you having fun with some others on FaceBook.
I hate it when I have to travel home alone and these eyelids are nearly wide shut or thistummy is oh so bloated.
I hate it when you said you will be there but you left me all alone.
see, i can also do poetry..cos I’m hating now
The Path Less Travelled
A shortcut albeit a spooky one from Jurong East to home. Alighted near Chinese Garden MRT and decided to walk through Chinese Garden instead of the jogger’s path along Boon Lay Way. The lights were just enough make the path visible and not knock into accidentally. Perhaps it was meant to be that way so that you would not see what’s lurking beneath the darkness.
Spooky but the view of Lakeside skyline is superb, like some cosmo city
There was a stray dog, ready to pounce on me and I just walk on while giving it a stare. LOL. Meremang bulu tengok and I realised that it was malam Jumaat. Darn! Oh well, it’s both a long way through or back so I just have to walk on and the night breeze was able to calm my nerves. In a way, it was a TIME OUT period for me and I actually pretended the statues that lined the bridge to be saluting to me and hailing, “Daulat Tuanku”. I musy had too much caffeine that day.
The sky is a dark blue and magenta!!
Stuck in time @ Ancient China
I Swear, It’s Not Me!!
For starters, I just found out that this movie is from Canada NOT France, yes a week after watching it. It was a very disturbing movie about this young punk who would not stop at nothing just to get some attention from his parents, in his own bid to keep them together.
Léon Doré is the disturb boy who apparently has the same clothes that I wore when I was young. The stripped T shirts, teeny weeny shorts and high socks were the epitome of mamal-ness back in the 80s. Hence I felt very personal about this movie although his antics were too exaggerated. I was a good boy, I even got the “Most Obedient” award during Primary School days which now I take that as an insult. Am I being compared to a dog??
It was night at the movies with 3 handsome chaps, me included. Azhar booked 3 seats at GV Vivocity and we rushed off from work to catch the 7pm show. The show for me has some underlining message about how a dyfunctional family can affect the well being of a child. Apparently Leon doesn’t know the meaning of FEAR and DEATH; he attempted suicide so many times, it’s a surprise that he’s still alive.
Here’s a review by CNA
SINGAPORE – It was named one of the Toronto International Film Festival’s Top 10 Canadian Films of 2008, and was voted Best Canadian Film by the Vancouver Film Critics Circle.
And rightly so.
“It’s Not Me, I Swear” is more than just a Quebec coming-of-age story about 10-year-old hellraiser Leon (played by fascinating newcomer Antoine L’Ecuyer) who lies, wreaks havoc and attempts many a suicide in order to distract his flighty painter mum and emotionally-absent lawyer dad from fighting.
It’s also much-lauded director Philippe Falardeau’s convincing social commentary about the repercussions of a fractured home life and changing cultural issues of the late ’60s and early ’70s.
With parental advice like “It’s better not to lie, but it’s worse to lie badly”, one really wonders if the tragically disconnected Leon even stood a chance.
Never once allowing Leon or his histrionics to lapse into cute, Falardeau manages a trifecta of black humour, pathos and childhood whimsy to create a truly heart-wrenching cinematic experience.
Which serves as a complete surprise for someone who might be expecting a Canadian “Dennis The Menace” meets “Home Alone”.
Not only is a damaged child’s pain and cry for help on full display, he is also surrounded by gripping characters leading lives of desperation: His long-suffering elder brother; his aggravated father; and Lea, the damaged girl next door (a captivating Catherine Faucher).
Adapted from a pair of popular novels by Bruno Hebert and mesmerisingly shot by cinematographer Andre Turpin (2000 Maelstrom), who manages to find the beautiful in the banal, this is one film that carefully balances the dark emotional tragedy with a comedic playfulness – all with a light hand.
It’s a story so uncomfortably real, it’s disquieting.

SURPRISE!! You’re 30
I’m not about done about me turning 30.
I’d be lying if I say that I don’t care much about birthday celebrations but I’d always told myself to expect the worst so that I do not put up much hope lest I get disappointed. For that you have only yourself to blame for expecting too much from friends or family because in life, you have to learn to be independent. Sad, I know; mati pun kubur sorang².
When Nur buzzed me for dinner at Fish & Co, I did suspect a “surprise celebration” but the faith is shaky like jello. What if no one else turn up, I can’t show my disappointment to Nur who put aside her “weekend precious time” for me. Of course, I’ve dined with her before, just us but this is MY birthday and oh well, it’s ok cos she did promised me a GREAT GIFT! She has been a great friend all these while, although I got pissed with her most of the times but that’s what friends are for. We give constructive criticsm and learnt to adapt to others. LOL.
I was late, 15 mins and when I stepped into Fish & Co, my heart skipped a beat. OMG, there were 6 others there, all sniggering and wishing me Happy Birthday. I was like stunned and I think turned pale for a moment but it was a damn great surprise. My friends do CARE enough to set aside their weekend for me. Macih².


Ehem, there were some missing faces. It would be great to have the whole lot celebrate me, perhaps feed me with grapes and fan me with that humongous hand fan with bulu². I guess they would have their own reasons and the show must go on. Camera, roll.. Thanks to everyone who “pakat” to surprise me ya!! Each and everyone of you deserves a BIG PAT for making my day!!

I had my usual, SEAFOOD PLATTER and there was a cake for me too. I had to candidly stand on the stool while everyone sing for me. SING i said, you better sing!! LOL. They gave me a firecracker (bunga api, cikgu Seha kata it’s friecracker in English) and I waved it around like I just don’t care. There was another guy celebrating his birthday at the adjacent table but we did mine first so I took away his thrill. Mine was better because we sang better, longer, louder and I was definitely cuter. wahahaha..

I HEART you people. Thanks for the great dinner, great company!! I’m thankful for having great friends at 30!!!
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